parents deserve to party with kristen kaza
Kristen Kaza is an award-winning cultural producer, educator, and community advocate with a mission to connect people and foster joy through creative experiences. For nearly two decades, Kristen has worked tirelessly to bridge the worlds of creative laborers and institutions, leaving a lasting impact on Chicago’s LGBTQ+ and BIPOC communities. As the Creative Director of No Small Plans Productions, she has produced hundreds of “parties with a purpose,” including Chicago’s iconic Slo ‘Mo, the city’s longest-running LGBTQ+ dance party. In addition to her work in the entertainment industry, Kristen co-founded Reunion Chicago, a project incubator and event space dedicated to supporting LGBTQ+ and BIPOC creatives. Kristen’s influence extends beyond the creative realm; she serves on various boards and teaches as an educator. Recently, she’s exploring a shift in her work and life as she navigates motherhood, creativity, and community in new ways.
Q&A with Kristen Kaza:
What current projects are you working on?
I’m currently focused on a project that ties closely to my role as a mother, both as a community mother and the new mother of twins. I’m in a period of deep reflection and exploration, prioritizing the germination of ideas over taking immediate action. I’ve always been someone driven by big visions that require my full attention, and now I have to balance that with being the parent I want to be. One project I’m maintaining is Slo ‘Mo, the LGBTQ+ dance party that has been running in Chicago for years. I’m still committed to ensuring that it’s a pleasurable, affirming experience for everyone involved.
Who is currently inspiring you with their wild and wise approach to life?
I’m excited to turn 40 next year, and I feel like I’m catching up with my spirit age. I admire women who fully embrace their power, sensuality, creativity, and time at this stage in life. It’s inspiring to see how women are reclaiming their confidence and strength, and it excites me for the future.
How do you personally define a curated life?
A curated life is one of intentionality. We all have the same 24 hours, and it’s about prioritizing what deepens your connection to yourself, your partner, your loved ones, and your community. I focus on moving in ways that support expansion and deep care, filling my life with quality moments, big and small. For me, these moments—whether it’s enjoying oysters, kayaking, or laughing with my children—are essential to recharging my energy.
What are your current aspirations and vision for the future, considering both your wild creative ideas and the wisdom you've gained?
I want to motivate and support parents in finding pleasure, autonomy, and growth. Specifically, I hope to inspire mothers to claim their sensuality, strength, and worthiness. I also want to create opportunities for glamour and enjoyment, as life can be stressful. I believe that we need these moments of joy to recenter ourselves, and I aim to provide spaces where people can indulge in those experiences.
What daily practices or habits help you stay connected to your wild and wise self?
Rest is crucial for me. I have to get enough sleep, and sometimes that means taking naps, especially when my toddlers do. Without proper rest, I can’t function at my best. I also make sure to move my body daily, in a variety of ways. This keeps my body and mind active, and helps me stay connected to myself.
How has your community or network influenced your current projects and ideas?
My community is growing older, whether it’s in their career, family life, or personal growth. While my peers may not engage with nightlife and socializing the way they used to, they still seek connection. I’m focused on creating spaces that meet them where they are, with earlier start times, plenty of seating, and accessibility in mind. I want my work to make everyone feel glamorous and empowered, especially parents who may feel their sensuality or sexuality has been put on hold.
What advice would you give to aspiring visionaries?
Things take the time they take. I’m a big dreamer, and sometimes I forget to consider whether the scale or timing of a project aligns with my current pace. It’s important to remember that good things take time. Just because something hasn’t come to fruition yet doesn’t mean it’s not worth it. It might just be a “not right now.” Patience is key, and the process is often just as important as the end result.
What impact do you hope your current work will have on the world?
I hope my work inspires people to move with care and curiosity. I want to create spaces that allow for ease, pleasure, and inspiration, while also considering access and inclusivity. Everything I do aims to strengthen community and generate joy. I hope my approach to spacemaking encourages others to see their roles in creating collective experiences and living with abundance and care.